Dear Sisi Bunmi

This is a letter I received from one of my followers, please read and post any advise or comment you may have.<br /> <br /> <span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Dear Sisi Bunmi</span><br /> <span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">I have been married for ten years now to the most amazing man and we have two adorable sons. However, I did have a brief affair with an ex of mine around the time our second son was born and now he is looking more and more like my ex and I am convinced that he is in fact my ex's son. My sister even recently called my attention to the fact of the resemblance between my son and my ex and I confessed to her about the affair. I know it would break my husbands heart and our marriage if it turns out that my second son is not my husbands' and he finds out; my other worry is that my ex could come after me to lay claim to his son if he also finds out. I know I have done wrong and wish I could turn the hand of the clock back but sadly I cannot. Please advise me, do I do a DNA test and come clean to all parties if it turns out that my ex fathered my son or do I just leave things as they are and hope and pray that no one ever finds out or get hurt by my foolish act. (kindly post your advise on your blog, I read it regularly and I watch your show) thank you and stay blessed. Confused wife.</span>

Dear Sisi Bunmi

This is a letter I received from one of my followers, please read and post any advise or comment you may have. Dear Sisi Bunmi I have been married for ten years now to the most amazing man and we have two adorable sons. However, I did have a brief affair with an ex of mine around the time our second…

More »