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Monkey Relative!

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A child asked his father, "How were people born?" So his father said, "Adam and Eve made babies, then their babies became adults and made babies, and so on." The child then went to his mother, asked her the same question and she told him, "We were monkeys then we evolved to become like we are now." The child ran back to his father and said, "You lied to me!" His father replied, "No, your mom was talking about her side of the family."<br />
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Real African Hair!

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<span style="font-weight: normal; line-height: 1.1;">Mutsa Madonka had his drink spiked in a club in Johannesburg and then had his dreadlocks shaved off and stolen! </span><span style="color: #444444; font-family: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-style: inherit; font-weight: normal; line-height: 22px;">The theft, said hair stylists, was probably connected to the rising demand for natural dreadlocks as extensions s</span><span style="color: #444444; font-family: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-style: inherit; font-weight: normal; line-height: 22px;">houlder-length dreadlocks are sold for between R200 and R700, while longer ones cost as much as R2500. I</span><span style="color: #444444; font-family: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-style: inherit; font-weight: normal; line-height: 22px;">t was clear that whoever stole his hair - which had taken him 10 years to grow - was after nothing else. His friend said,</span><span style="color: #444444; font-family: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-style: inherit; font-weight: normal; line-height: 22px;"> </span><span style="color: #444444; font-family: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-style: inherit; line-height: 22px;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">"When we found him, he still had his cellphone and wallet with all his money inside." Stylist </span></span><span style="color: #444444; font-family: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-style: inherit; font-weight: normal; line-height: 22px;">John Wushe said: "They are becoming very popular. On a busy day we get about 10 people [wanting] to extend their hair.</span><span style="color: #444444; font-family: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-style: inherit; font-weight: normal; line-height: 22px;">"</span><span style="color: #444444; font-family: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-style: inherit; font-weight: normal; line-height: 22px;">But not everyone is keen on using a stranger's hair.</span><span style="color: #444444; font-family: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-style: inherit; line-height: 22px;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">Willy Selahla of Soweto said: "I'm using my brother's hair because I know where it comes from and that he wasn't hurt." </span></span><span style="color: #444444; font-family: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-style: inherit; font-weight: normal; line-height: 22px;">For clients wanting the extensions, the dreadlocks are either woven in individually using a thin crocheting hook or sewn together using a needle and thread . </span><span style="color: #444444; font-family: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-style: inherit; font-weight: normal; line-height: 22px;">The process usually takes about two hours to complete and costs between R250 and R1500 depending on the length and thickness of the hair. </span><span style="color: #444444; font-family: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-style: inherit; font-weight: normal; line-height: 22px;">Johannesburg police spokesman Captain John Maluleka encouraged victims to open cases of assault. He said: "We have only heard stories - no cases have been reported to us." Another </span><span style="color: #444444; font-family: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-style: inherit; font-weight: normal; line-height: 22px;">stylist, Lebo Masimong said women were the most vulnerable. </span><span style="color: #444444; font-family: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-style: inherit; line-height: 22px;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">"You are an easy target if you walk around and your hair is loose. They don't care about your money or fancy phone. They are only after your hair.</span></span><span style="color: #444444; font-family: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-style: inherit; font-weight: normal; line-height: 22px;">"</span></h3>

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Top Chefs!

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9 year old groom!

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Sanele Masilela, a nine year old boy, from a South African village has married, Shabangu,  a woman in her sixties to 'please their ancestors' and his parents shelled out about $1,700 for the ceremony. The couple first got married last year after Masilela said his dead ancestors told him to. The second ceremony took place on July 12 this year because the boy wanted to make it "official," though members of both families made it clear that the marriage was not legally binding, the pair do not live together and do not have sexual relationship. The wedding was also attended by Shabangu's husband, Alfred Shabangu, who spoke out in support of the wedding. "My kids and I are happy because we don't have a problem with her marrying the boy and I don’t care what other people say,” Shabangu said. Masilela's mother, Patience, defended the wedding, saying "People keep asking will they live together, sleep together, have babies, but I keep telling them that after the wedding, everything went back to normal –- nothing changed," she said. "All this ceremony is for making ancestors happy. We are playing.” Masilela said her son would marry a woman his own age when he got older.</div>
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Eye Test

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I feel compelled to share this story with you all. I was speaking with a casual acquaintance recently and asked after his wife to which he replied that she was in hospital battling leukemia. It was the last response I expected from him as his wife is an energetic vibrant mother of five whose last born child is only two years old. I asked him how he was coping and if there was anything I could do to help. He asked for my prayers. I wanted to know the hows and the whens. He explained to me that his wife had accompanied her friend to the opticians for an eye test and had decided to have one too as she hadn't had her eyes tested in a long while. She had no aches or pains, nothing what so ever to give her any concern over her health, nothing what so ever, according to her husband. In fact the family was due for their annual holiday a week later. Thus after her friends' test she sat in the seat for her eye test. Soon after the test commenced, the optician started with a barrage of questions, did she have any headaches? did she feel dizzy? did she have fits? and so on. Finally the optician informed her that she needed to go into the hospital immediately as there is a tumor in the back of her eyes, a brain tumor! Her husband was called immediately and he took her to the hospital where further tests confirmed that she did in fact have a brain tumor. She was admitted and eventually also diagnosed with leukemia. She has been in hospital ever since fighting for her life, this was nine months ago. I did not know that an eye test could reveal this much. I reflected on the courage of her husband as he forges ahead into an uncertain future with his five children; I also reflected on the fragility of life, how sometimes our best laid plans can be disrupted by life itself. My thoughts and prayers are with this woman and her family as she fights this battle of her life. I need to book an appointment with my friend, Dr Claire Esenwah of Smilie Opticians here in Abuja FCT. God help us all and keep us well.<br />
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'Gift'

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A jihadi leader has ordered that all women aged from 11 to 46 years in Iraq undergo female circumcision, according to a United Nations spokesperson. A fatwa or edict asking all families around Iraq's northern city of Mosul to circumcise daughters within the specified ages or face severe punishment has been issued. Ahmed Obaydi, a spokesman of Mosul Police said, “Baghdadi’s decision to have all women circumcised is, as he claims, to prevent immorality and promote Islamic attitudes among Muslims. The decision was made by Baghdadi as a ‘gift’ for people in Mosul.”</div>
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg5szJ6RnTfeNUXPE_XUROyS87IvvysReSVlzgQDkBFX6cENTTr2q7M0IKSl2dIWNQkTh86WL1BmmrWj9TuPdW6POHG331N7r35LO2xr2VByLVLzDIIwkTGuL5r99cg-7d3qyg_THuRpJI/s1600/florida+beast.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg5szJ6RnTfeNUXPE_XUROyS87IvvysReSVlzgQDkBFX6cENTTr2q7M0IKSl2dIWNQkTh86WL1BmmrWj9TuPdW6POHG331N7r35LO2xr2VByLVLzDIIwkTGuL5r99cg-7d3qyg_THuRpJI/s1600/florida+beast.jpg" /></a><br /><span style="line-height: 1.35em;">A florida father hailed a hero for beating up a baby sitter he caught having sex with his 11 year old son said, "My immediate feeling was to kill him so he will never hurt anyone again," He reportedly beat Frolander unconscious after finding him sexually abusing his 11-year-old son. "My son saved Raymond," he said. "Raymond was motionless on our floor. I went to the kitchen to grab a butcher knife and my son stopped me. My son came in front of me and saved his attacker's life." And while the father believes his son has forgiven Frolander, he isn't so sure he ever will.</span></div>
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Caught in the act!

Caught in the act!

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08:26

WHAT DO I DO?( Marriage Is At The Verge Of Crumbling)

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Dear Sisi Bunmi         <br />
Good day, please I need your help urgently. I just sense
that my marriage is at the verge of crumbling and I need to act fast. I have
been married for four years with a set of twin girls to show for it. I have
been a happy mum until recently when I started feeling very uncomfortable with
the closeness between my husband and his ex. They’ve always been close and he
introduced her to me while we were courting as the lady he was to marry, but
the girl’s father was not in support of their relationship so they broke up
after 3years of courtship before I came into the picture. During our courtship
which lasted for 2years, he was still very close to his ex which I really did
not see anything wrong with, he even calls her name whenever he was trying to
talk to me and I felt he will get over it with time. To my greatest amazement,
my husband’s ex who is still not married started visiting us when we moved back
to Lagos (we were in Kano the first 2years of our marriage), to the extent that
my husband allowed her to spend the Easter weekend a few months ago claiming
that she is a family friend. At the moment, their offices are in the same
building on Lagos island and he keeps talking about her much more than
necessary. Now he comes very late and looks too withdrawn from me and the kids.
Our usual <span class="aqj"><span data-term="goog_1156280124" tabindex="0">Saturday</span></span>
family get together has been cancelled for the past 5weeks as my husband is
always in an undisclosed location on the island for one strategic meeting on
the other every <span class="aqj"><span data-term="goog_1156280125" tabindex="0">Saturday</span></span>.
I have confronted him on the issue and he has warned me never to insinuate that
his ex has anything to do with his change in attitude since she is a very nice
person. From my investigation, the lady’s father who stood as a barrier against
their marriage is late. W am feeling so uncomfortable with the latest
development,I don't know the best approach to take and at the same time I am
strongly convinced that there's an emotional build up btw them. What do I do?

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WHAT DO I DO?( Marriage Is At The Verge Of Crumbling)

WHAT DO I DO?( Marriage Is At The Verge Of Crumbling)

Dear Sisi Bunmi Good day, please I need your help urgently. I just sense that my marriage is at the verge of crumbling and I need...

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Dear Sisi Bunmi

This is a letter I received from one of my followers, please read and post any advise or comment you may have.<br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Dear Sisi Bunmi</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">I have been married for ten years now to the most amazing man and we have two adorable sons. However, I did have a brief affair with an ex of mine around the time our second son was born and now he is looking more and more like my ex and I am convinced that he is in fact my ex's son. My sister even recently called my attention to the fact of the resemblance between my son and my ex and I confessed to her about the affair. I know it would break my husbands heart and our marriage if it turns out that my second son is not my husbands' and he finds out; my other worry is that my ex could come after me to lay claim to his son if he also finds out. I know I have done wrong and wish I could turn the hand of the clock back but sadly I cannot. Please advise me, do I do a DNA test and come clean to all parties if it turns out that my ex fathered my son or do I just leave things as they are and hope and pray that no one ever finds out or get hurt by my foolish act. (kindly post your advise on your blog, I read it regularly and I watch your show) thank you and stay blessed. Confused wife.</span>

Dear Sisi Bunmi

Dear Sisi Bunmi

This is a letter I received from one of my followers, please read and post any advise or comment you may have. Dear Sisi Bunmi I have bee...

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Perverse Art?

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Having not sat to watch a movie in a rather long time and being an avid 'Afro-Passionista.' I was delighted to find on a recent long haul flight that one of the movies available under the 'latest' selection was '12 Years As A Slave' featuring the beautiful and elegant Lupita Nyong'o<b>. </b>As soon as I settled in my seat and I was served a nice drink, I selected the movie and watched it unfold.<span style="background-color: white; color: #252525; font-family: sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 22.399999618530273px;"> </span>I am Afrocentric. Yes black is beautiful, Africa and Africans have got soul! I have been fascinated by this latest  global Afrocentric phenomenon, Lupita Luongo, I think she epitomizes African beauty. She is gorgeous and all natural. I had read about her success both in the movie industry and the modelling industry and I believe she is a positive role model for African women, especially the young generation who rarely have their beauty showcased and celebrated. She has talent too, having won an Oscar for her supporting role in this movie. No doubt she is an accomplished actress with extensive training. As the story line unfolded, the taste in my mouth grew sour. This movie is humiliating, it does not tell us anything we do not already know about slavery, about how black people were dehumanized and abused. We know all that. So what is the point of this movie? From the beginning to the sordid end it ridiculed black people, it put us down several centuries and took us to a place we want to forget but are never allowed to, through the continuous constant oppression and rape of Africa by the rest of the world. There was nothing positive about that movie. Lupita is a fine actress, but she was totally humiliated and ridiculed in that movie. Yes I know it was acting but the line was so so blurred this time around. There was no need for that nude scene other than to feed into the sadistic fetishness of some people, no wonder at all about the Oscar prize. There is no need to keep taking us back to those places that we left ages ago and would rather leave to history. Even if these stories need to be told for what ever reasons, let them be told in dignity. We want the pride of Africa and Africans restored and films like '12 Years As A Slave' do nothing for the cause. And why is it that black women only win Oscars when they take on roles that trivializes their femininity and humiliate their race? Halle Berry famously won an Oscar for her role as a black sex play thing in 'Monster's ball'. Yes this movie was adapted from a true story written by a 'free' black man who was captured and sold into slavery for twelve years. This is one true story that did not need to be made into yet another visual orgy of the degradation and humiliation of black people. The power of imagery is so profound and black people do not need to add these kind of images to the burden we already carry as disenfranchised inhabitants of the center of the world, AFRICA.

Perverse Art?

Having not sat to watch a movie in a rather long time and being an avid 'Afro-Passionista.' I was delighted to find on a recent l...

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